Writing is a battle too. The one that starts in front of a blank page or even before opening it. It is you against you. Let’s start with you. Who are you? It might be an annoying question to answer as it is obvious that we are human beings, sisters, daughters, mothers, professionals, workers, etc. Yet does it completely define you?

What do office workers, Octavia E. Butler and tango lessons have in common? They’ve all been part of my writing process for this article. Here’s a behind-the-scenes look as I learn the ever-valuable lesson to always write true to your heart.